39 week appointment woes

Well, although the nurse made me think it was any day now, the Doc gave us both a reality check. Although baby is low, i am totally not dilated, and he could barely even reach my cervix...sorry for TMI! I havent had any contractions, just mild cramping. I am trying to be patient but when Doc said he cant promise the baby will be here by Christmas, I got a little worried. I go in again on Monday and if I still have no progress we will discuss options for the following week. I have no problem waiting as long as he comes when he is ready and hopefully not TOO big!!